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Yes, I'm in a relationship with a man who has shown to me and others that I'm the woman he sees as his committed life partner.

I'm in an exclusive relationship, but it's not at the "Forever" stage.

I'm dating or can make connections with men, but nothing exclusive right now.

I've never had or it's been years since I've experienced a relationship with a man that feels safe and trustworthy.

I am the lone support of a child or aging parent, or a single parent of a child with high physical or emotional needs.

Stress around work - very draining, not enough of it, not secure enough or you don't enjoy it.

I have children who are with me or who I'm regularly supporting emotionally or financially with support and involvement of their other parent.

No dependents, no stress from work, finances are good, just responsible for me.

Major stress financially - bankruptcy fears, having to downsize home or vehicle, major guilt around not affording children's activities, creditors calling, etc.

Unfair

Exhausting

Challenging

Transformational

It doesn't feel like there's any room left at the end of the day for me

Even if it’s simple, small or free I make it a priority.

I do things like treat myself to coffee, dinner, flowers, beauty treatments, fitness memberships, driving to see friends

Quality of life is a priority for me. Destination vacations, a full day at the spa, housekeeper, professional pet care, shopping trips - things that make it a life I love.

Social Media, books or other types of self-study

Formal therapy with a licensed practitioner

Coaching, online courses, online workshops

Intensives, retreats, travel to workshops/events

I want to believe it exists, but haven't seen it in anyone I know.

There has been at least one couple I've known who have what I'm looking for.

The way you two show up looks pretty good to me!

I've had it before and I want it again

I have an exclusive partner who I've been seeing or living with for more than 9 months.

7+

4-7 years

0-4 years

I've always had my own place or never lived with a romantic partner.

Less than 3 years

3-10 years

10+ years

I'm frustrated with the toxic behavior of men. They need to step up and do their work. I won't put up with it anymore.

Turns heads in any room he's in

Member of and conscientiously practicing my specific faith or a specific cultural heritage

Shares equally strong views on any of these: Treatment of animals, personal or religious adherence to foods we don't eat, social, spiritual or political activism

Has a comfortable established upper middle class lifestyle (six figures plus) he's lived for the past 5 or more years, unaffected by current alimony or child support

One or more of these is important, but not a deal breaker if they can appreciate my connection to it

No thanks

Maybe if someone took care of the parts I don't enjoy

I'd be open to it

I'm doing it or I did it when I was single.

Not ready to be this vulnerable yet.

I'm not loving my body right now, but maybe if he can convince me he does.

Only if the drinks are still in my system

A little nervous, a little excited but I'm doing this!

I have a very specific plan I stick to before I have sex that keeps me safe (30 days, 10 dates, I've met their mother, etc.)

There are some things most men may be interested in that I'm not.

I'm pretty open to anything if I feel safe and connected to my partner.

There is sexual trauma in my past that can cause an instant trigger or disassociation

I've struggled to figure out what works for me

Practical, something that doesn't take too much work

I really enjoy fashion, shopping for clothes and putting together a current look

I'm the one everyone comes to for fashion advice

I really need to know someone well to not feel anxious or awkward

I'm ok if I'm out at a public event as long as I can find a common interest

I'm comfortable with others and good at making others feel comfortable

When people meet me they instantly like me and want to get together again

I love connecting with masculine energy and a connection with a man who wants to protect and provide - taking care of what's dangerous, dirty or disgusting and I look after creating a homey space for us to spend time together.

I'm a thinker, more focused on practical things. Never been that interested in traditional roles, spending time connecting to social circles with groups of other women.

I have a desire to be with a man, but until someone proves they're safer than what I've experienced in the past I'll take my time and keep a bit of distance until I know they're safe.

I'm a free spirit who loves new experiences. I don't cook, so my guy will either be the one who loves that or we'll go out or order in. I'm not into traditional roles, so things in the home have to be at least 50/50.

Still working on this one.

I'm a few minutes before, a few minutes after or on the dot.

I've made timeliness a priority and I find it frustrating when other people's choices end up putting me behind schedule.

If I were ever late people would be concerned that something dramatic had occurred, because it just never happens.

I have a "Horizontal Organizing System" where things are spread across surfaces in my vehicle, on my desk and around my home.

I've worked on being organized to the point where I'm not constantly looking for things or having to purchase multiples because I can't find what I need when in a rush.

With 30 minutes notice I'd be comfortable with anyone in my home, car or office.

I take great care and pride in a tidy vehicle and home. Everything has a place that I put it in before moving from one area or activity to another.

I've had to work to develop a positive self image because of insensitive comments people have made

I've had insecurities like most, but overall I've felt accepted and like who I am

I attract attention and if I'm with a group I often attract the most attention in the group.

Strangers often make comments like, "You're gorgeous, you should model/must be an athlete/fitness instructor"

Both partners understand that nobody is perfect and are willing to compromise and forgive

We openly share our thoughts and feelings, but take on our responsibilities and personal growth independent of each other

Someone who loves me unconditionally and understands I'm still healing from being hurt in the past

I want to have a baby very soon, but my relationship status makes that difficult

I have unresolved trauma that is preventing me from having healthy relationships

Relationship Drama - Can't figure out how to leave, Can't get him out of my head, or It's not going in the right direction

I'm feeling highly overwhelmed, confused or frustrated with understanding men, modern dating and relationship rules.

None of these apply to me

It's stressful to think about.

What's coming in is pretty close to what's going out.

I take care of the necessities, savings and have room left over.

I'm comfortable enough that a partner making six figures or more wouldn't affect my lifestyle

I only have personal pages and they are basically private.

I only have personal pages and some of my posts are visible to people who don't follow me.

I don't have a business, but I'd be interested in knowing how to share your material with people I know

I have an audience and I'd be interested in knowing how to share your material with them.