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Do you ever wonder why so few relationships make it past the first 90 days, or why the majority of the ones that do are never better than they were in the first 90 days?
We're find until we meet the kind of man who takes our breath away, and when that happens we lose ourselves into the relationship along with our ability to separate his potential from his reality.
When we've had so many let downs it's easy to spend our energy being frustrated by what has happened in the past instead of preparing ourselves to be up to the standard we want to be when we meet our forever.
When I met Graham I watched myself lose myself as I fell into a space that I'd ached for for so long. If I hadn't have caught myself and realized what was happening I never would have been able to step back and take time to observe.
The first 90 days are critical for 3 things:
1. Taking time to get to know if he's for real or just a good show
2. Asking the right questions in order to know if he's really who we could spend a lifetime getting to know
3. Managing our energy just as well with a remarkable man as the ones we weren't so sure about.
We tend to give too much credit for things he hasn't actually demonstrated yet, give our heart too early or give so much that he loses the incentive to work for the things he needs to feel aren't so easily given.
It's in the way a woman balances the vulnerability of her heart with the high standards of her expectations that triggers his response to suddenly recognize- "It's YOU!"
When I met Graham he was adamant that he wasn’t even looking to date. His heart space was switched off and he was in full “headspace” when we began getting to know each other.
He’s revealed a lot to me about the process of how the way I showed up was different than any woman he’d ever met and made it literally impossible for him not to open his heart. It’s not that he felt he was giving me what I wanted, he literally felt like what he wanted most for him was to give me these things.
It’s a fun argument we have sometimes about what’s happening in our relationship and who enjoys more of the connection – me for what I get to experience or him for what he gets to give.
Men are looking for a woman that they never tire of making happy and giving things that make her smile. Once you know how to signal a man’s heart that you are this woman, the one unlike any he’s ever met, he literally can’t stop his heart from opening or giving you the things that make yours feel filled.
Men are actually incredibly simple when it comes to a relationship – all they want is a woman who they believe they are uniquely designed to make happy for a lifetime. We are actually in complete control of the signals that tell him he’s found “the one”.
This is not about tips on how to seduce a man – men’s hearts can’t be seduced, but once they choose you this deeply, you're the only one for them forever.
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