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DAY 15

- The Relationship Starts With You -

 

 
You’ve done the work. You’ve sat with your pain, stood your ground, and learned to love yourself. Now? You’re seeing the shift.
In today’s video, Rachel shares how she stopped chasing, stopped settling, and started receiving love that saw her soul. Her story reminds us that when a woman embodies self-love, her world reorganizes around her worth.
 

“When I stopped begging to be chosen and chose myself instead—everything changed.”

Today's Self-Love Invitation: 

(Let this be soft. These are simply invitations. →) 

  • Write down every area of your life that feels like a mismatch to the woman you’re becoming.
    Ask: “Where am I still tolerating less than I deserve—and why?”
    Then write one loving step forward.

  • Get dressed today like the woman who’s already living her next chapter.
    Move, speak, and make decisions from her frequency. Be her now.

  • Revisit one past version of yourself—maybe the one who chased, settled, or doubted. Write her a thank-you letter. Let her know: “Because of you, I am who I am today.” End with: “I release you. I’ve got it from here.”

This is Day 15...
And you’re embodying the love you used to chase.

“Vulnerability after heartbreak isn’t weakness—it’s the greatest act of self-love. It says: I still believe in my worth, even after everything.”

- Jenn Funk

Ready to Begin Your Self-Love Habit? 

Start with Jenn’s Guided Meditations →

More About Jenn & Graham

He made it safe to be fully sexually expressed.

“There was never shame. Never pressure. Just this sense that everything about me—the way I move, the way I want to be touched, the way I come alive—is sacred. I’ve never felt so celebrated in my body. So safe to be fire and softness in the same breath. There’s no discord in the way he connects with me. Only reverence.”
 
“I’ve heard Jenn describe this quality a few times when she’s working with women.  I think this is effortless for a man who is in pursuit of his purpose because he doesn’t show up in life chasing sexual access with women.  I just focus on the big picture, work at making sure she feels safe in the important dynamics of life and my experience is I have a partner who’s totally switched on and more and more into me.  I don’t feel like I’m trying or doing anything difficult, I just feel blessed to have a connection with a woman that’s more on fire the longer this goes!”