SELF-LOVE
SOULMATE COURSE
I used to believe it was impossible to meet a man who would embrace every part of my sensitive, emotional, feminine essence.
I was told that I expressed too much, cried too much, and felt too deeply. I was made to feel I wasn't together enough, tough enough or strong enough to be loved and fully embraced by the kind of man I deeply desired.
I got to the point where I nearly gave up... then I met a conscious man who made me feel like those were the parts of me he loved most of all.
There had been cruel men who attacked and insulted these parts of me and careless men men who put me down. There were even a few sensitive men who listened, but didn't know how to be centered enough for what I needed.
But I knew I wanted - I NEEDED - more...
...and then I met a conscious man.
If you're like the sensitive empathic women I mentor, you long for a masculine man with the capacity to embrace and hold space for your feminine soul. You have so much that you want to share, but the men you've met have made you feel flawed for being you or had so far to go to reach their potential they needed a mother more than a lover.
Conscious men with the ability to hold space for you do exist.
A man exists that is the perfect compliment to you. There is a synergy and chemistry better than the fantasy and I know it's there for you because I've seen it happen now over and over.
I have now supported women who have never married, women who have left narcissists, women who have been left alone with children by men who were emotional children themselves and young women just beginning their search all learn to open their hearts in the way that draws in the energy of a conscious man.
Are You Ready To Love Yourself The Way A Soulmate Should?
I'm going to share the secret behind all my clients who have attracted ‘the one.'
Join myself and Graham for 12 weeks as I share my process and he explains how it makes a woman irresistible to conscious men
I'm going to share the secret behind all my clients who have attracted ‘the one.'
It starts with completely accepting and fully embracing every part of ourselves.
The first step for me was to find the courage to start over. In 2009 after 17 years of marriage I was on my own with two teenagers and a newborn.
I made the commitment to find women who could show me the way to create the kind of life and love I desired. Four years later I put myself out into the dating world and two days later I met my conscious man.
I got a lot of response to the dating profile I put up, but I instantly knew one man was different from all the rest.
It's not a matter of being able to attract men's attention. The critical piece is respecting and loving yourself so deeply that only a magnificent man meets your standard.
Conscious love is possible, but we need support to first fully love and accept ourselves.
And this is the truth…
We attract the love we believe we deserve. We attract a better kind of love when we live in a better kind of love.
This is why I have created Women's Circles. Love isn't created in a vacuum, it grows in the presence of people who truly see us, reflect the beauty of all that we are and validate how valuable and special we are.
It begins by surrounding ourselves with people who love us and whose lives are examples we want for ourselves.
Here's what we'll be doing during the 12-Part Self-Love & Soulmate Women's Circle
PART 1: Where Did Your Love Meter Get Stuck
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Emotional thermostat - where is your love meter stuck?
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How old were you when you first questioned if you were lovable or if it was safe to love?
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How did first learn to receive love?
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Were you enthusiastically encouraged to be the most authentic version of yourself?
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Did you regularly hear the words, "I love you" and "I'm proud of you"?
PART 2: Forgiving Ourselves - Unsticking Shame And Blame
- How did you learn to receive love?
- Are you carrying forward unhealthy patterns of giving and receiving love?
- Learn to recognize, give and receive healthy forms of love.
- Daily healing and transformation process
- Replacing scripts of doubt, unworthiness and being unlovable with genuine beliefs of trust, deservedness and the hearts desire.
PART 3: Letting Go Of The Past And Embracing The Future
When did you develop unhealthy limiting beliefs:
- I'm too much
- I'm not enough
- I'm not worth the time
This is NOT the truth about women or Feminine energy in general. We all deserved, but few of us had parents who were fully capable of understanding and embracing us leading to us attracting men who felt familiar but fell short the same way.
This week Graham will join us and explain why the most 'complicated' aspects of the feminine are also a reflection of what makes it so valuable to a conscious masculine man.
PART #4: Uncovering Remaining Hidden Wounds And Unconscious Triggers
- Assessing our Wounds & Triggers Often - abandonment/ rejection / unlovable
- Wound history ( I was left in Hawaii when I was 2 and lost in Jamaica at 7 = "I'm forgettable...")
- Trigger history ( My ex would insult me when I began to cry. I learned to shut down my feelings and turn to anger instead of expressing my honest emotions)
PART 5: Stuck Patterns And Limiting Beliefs
- What do you do when you feel abandoned? " I felt like a child and like I was going to die"(my 2 year old)
- What do you do when you feel rejected?
- How do you mutate yourself when you feel like you're too much?
PART 6: How To Become Irresistibly Attractive To Your Self
- Self-trust – are you showing up for you?
- It's not possible to trust others if we don't trust ourselves. Conscious people don't bond with people who don't possess the quality of self-trust.
- Graham will join us again as both he and I share the path to self-trust and self-love and why this step needs to precede commitment to a partner vs attempting to heal each other.
PART 7: Owning And Integrating Your Worth
PART 8: Taking Your Power Back
PART 9: Clearing Out Toxic Energy
PART 10: Embracing The Power And Beauty Of Your Feminine Energy
PART 11: The Process Of Falling In Love With Self
PART 12: Surrounding Yourself With Conscious Influences
Why Settling Never Works
Settling for someone who is simply better than being alone has only one outcome: codependency. We settle for them and they settle for us, and there are no passionate relationships that spring from a foundation of compromising our standards and a vibe of toleration.
Just getting out there isn't enough, it's our energy that matters most.
I know women that have spent years on and off of dating sites, worked with dating coaches and match makers and still haven't found what they're looking for.
When we have the right kind of energy it takes just days or weeks before the right kind of men start resonating with our vibe.
Do you want to attract magnificent men?
“Choose to be a woman with high standards and firm boundaries, and you will start to attract men who are inspired to measure up."
Conscious Love Springs From Personal Choice.
Get Started NowI'm making available the exact process I use with my one-on-one clients to a small group of women where Graham and I will personally support you through the steps of the process.
At this point I am booked out months in advance for personal work, so I have created a 6 week course that brings a woman to the place where she becomes irresistible to a conscious man. It's time to prepare your heart for the partnership you've longed for. It's totally possible, and it's much MUCH closer than you might think.
I want you to believe as much as I believe that you deserve magnificent love….
I’m a little reluctant to share how powerful this attraction can be...
Getting on a dating site, having friends set you up, and even working with the top matchmakers isn't going to create the spark you're looking for if you're not living with a belief you deserve your soulmate in the quiet lonely moments late at night. Switch that on in a genuine way and your energy will create instant attraction where ever you go.
Because since I switched this on, it's never gone away. 4 years later and every time Graham sees me it's like it's for the very first time. He tells me often that I become more and more attractive - and I FEEL it! The more I feel it, the more real it becomes.
All the women I've worked with report the same thing - men who weren't in the same energy vibe before suddenly start approaching them, the barista buys their coffee, men plug their meter, leave them notes and compliment them on how lucky their man must feel.
They're always appropriate and always surprised a woman 'like her' could possibly be single.
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Are You Ready To Create Irresistible Love?
Honestly if you're reading this far you know your soul is aching for you to take these steps.
You deserve to experience soul love.
If not now when? In another lifetime? Don't you deserve to experience the joy of another person lighting up every time you walk in the room?
“For every soul there is its compliment. Don't leave your match longing for your heart to show up for him.”
Did you think of that? By not opening your heart and turning your love light on you're denying an exceptional man the pleasure of the woman his heart aches to embrace.
Your soul is trying to speak to you...
There is a love you were born for and deserve. Only by risking the first steps can you begin the journey to love...
Once you give yourself permission to begin it is a very short space of time until you start attracting genuine love everywhere you go...
And then like so many of my clients you attract a magnificent man, you begin planing the rest of your life together, you're celebrating a proposal, a ring and for some even picking baby names.
It may seem like a dream now, but looking back then, today will feel like a lifetime ago.
The experience of life today is the one that will feel surreal. It will be hard to believe that there was ever a time you wondered if an amazing man would make you the center of his world and love the parts of you that are 'complicated'.
You are very close to the moment where your soulmate looks into your eyes and let's you know that for him, there is no other woman he sees.
So many women have attracted this love...
Carly and a number of others met their ideal guy online. Sarah discovered her highly romantic man at a business conference. Amhika met her man at a cousin's wedding. Belinda met her partner while on a cruise with her girlfriends.
I want you to hear not only from me, but from a conscious man what it takes to become irresistible to a man who has the strength to embrace every part of you, the courage to express himself, and the commitment to claim you exclusively.
Every month I'm contacted by hundreds of women asking what it took to attract a conscious man and if there are more like him out there.
Yes, absolutely!
After mentoring hundreds of women through the process of self-love, seeing them begin to attract a different caliber of relationships, fall in love, celebrate their proposals and now more and more receive invitations to their weddings I can promise you this is possible for you too!
When my relationship ended I felt like this might never happen. I had so many messages of being 'too much' and 'not enough' stuck in my head. With three kids and mounting debt I worried that men would only see me as a burden and that I would never find love.
I realized I needed to build a new foundation of confidence and self-acceptance before I would have the energy to love. I didn't want a man who would fix or save me, I wanted to be someone who was exquisitely worthy of love.
It began by choosing the people I would surround myself with, people who valued me, embraced my quirky, complicated and emotional qualities and proved those parts were worthy of love.
Do you want a remarkable circle of women you trust to love and support you this way?
It all changed for me the day I realized:
“Lovers with whole hearts don't seek out the broken to heal their wounds, it's when we are whole that they recognize what they seek in us."
It's not that men who are ready for a conscious partner are rare…
It's that we don't see them and they can't see us until we do more than believe we deserve it, we must be a loving soulmate to ourselves living a life with the kind of energy that inspires him to not only meet, but exceed the expectations already evidenced in our life.
For me it began with setting aside time every day for self-love. I went for dinner, bought myself flowers, took myself to the movies. I created a process of connecting with and loving my body and learned how to see myself through a lens of beauty instead of criticism.
It's not an accident that the man I attracted goes out of his way to spoil me with all of things and much more. He met a woman whose standards impressed him and his natural desire to be his woman's hero took over to give me everything I already had plus more.
This is what's critical to understand about men...
You're not going to attract a man who gives you the fantasy you've always dreamed of, you'll attract a man who is attracted to the energy you're living when the two of you meet. If you're not encountering conscious men, it's because the standard you've set for yourself doesn't inspire them to recognize you as the kind of woman they're looking for.
The good news is, we have total control over who we attract by the way we love ourselves
Are you ready to love yourself fiercely?
Don't you want a man who loves you passionately and is inspired to give you the world?
There is a process, inside the safety of a circle of love where you're fully seen, deeply acknowledged and authentically loved, where you will discover the essence in you that is the aphrodisiac to conscious men.
Discover How To Become Irresistible To Conscious Men
Are You Ready to Love Yourself as Deeply as You Desire a Partner to Love You?
I've worked with enough women to know you might be thinking…
- "This can’t happen for everyone"
- "I already lost my greatest love…"
- "I'm too complicated"
- "You can't find everything in one man"
- "I’m too much"
I understand. If this was true about anyone, it would have been me. Who would want to partner with a hyper emotional, single mom with teenagers and a toddler, an entangled divorce, financially complicated highly sensitive woman?
You know who I ended up meeting? A man who was ideally designed to support me in every single one of these areas!
The same is going to be true for you. The man out there right now, the one literally waiting for the woman who he is uniquely designed to be a magnificent partner for, is there waiting for you begin living with the belief that you deserve him.
It's not an accident that it was only 2 days after I put this intention out into the universe and committed to attracting a partner who met 100% of the standards I'd set (he exceeded them).
I see this over and over with the women I've mentored in the past 4 years.
When someone holds the space for us, believes in us before or when we can't and creates a safe space for us to believe, that's when we're able to claim the truth for our self.
It's not your fault you haven't created this yet, we all need someone to reflect the incredible value in us before we believe.
Before we can attract a magnificent love we need to surround ourselves with people who love us without judgement.
Something special happens once we're in a protective circle of total love and acceptance. We begin to focus on our beauty instead of flaws. Over time we realize we don't have flaws, just quirks and unique character that make us unique to love.
Graham and I had both resigned ourself to the idea that maybe no one would love some as unique and complicated as we were. When we met we discovered someone better than either of us had imagined.
What would it feel like to be able to strip down and fully reveal all your thoughts, feelings, passions and desires of your soul?
When you’re part of a conscious relationship, there is no judgement. You don't 'tolerate' each other, you hold space for each other. You don't take turns compromising, you both actively collaborate to create a mutual win. Even when it gets tough you don't argue, you look for the best in each other and take time to understand what you each need.
Don't you want a relationship where you're loved most for just being you?
Create a connection that asks no more than that you simply be the best version of yourself.
The most freeing thing about my relationship today is I don't 'try'. I'm deeply appreciated for doing the things that come naturally.
The same is true for Graham, the flowers he's always getting me, the thoughtful moments and physical and emotional closeness are naturally what he wants to give.
For 4 years we've been together almost constantly and rather than feeling exhausted by each other, we constantly find more to love.
What Happens That Makes Conscious Men Respond Irresistibly?
There's an energy we begin to give off once we learn to love ourselves that becomes an irresistible attractor to men who seek a conscious partner.
When you flip this switch, they can't stay away.
It doesn't matter if you're short, tall, voluptuous or thin, it's the confident energy of a woman who loves herself than men who aren't wounded adore. It's when we feel insecure or unworthy that we attract men who are projects, narcissists or looking for a mommy occurs.
Spending countless hours online, on bad dates, and kissing frogs is unnecessary when you're clear about your standards for your man. That's why I was able to pick Graham out of so many without the drama of bad dates.
Most women think it's got to be a numbers game to find a good man. It's not. Once you begin putting out a focused energy the right man zeros in and the rest won't matter.
Are you tired of games, players and men who don't plan or follow through?
I hear about this from virtually every woman I speak to, women who waste months on a man who disappears, runs away or who makes commitments he doesn't keep. The way I set women up, they skip all of the drama and go straight to the real deal!
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