But Can You Handle How Sexy You Are?

Do you even KNOW what makes you so damn irresistible????

I don't think you do.

I don't think you realize how much of your power you've shut down in response to men who were afraid that if you understood the power your feminine essence you would deny it from them.

It doesn't come from your figure, your youthfulness or even your sexuality. All of those are affected by this power you have - the one you've dialed down to just about zero, because your power frightens you.

Someone insulted you, shamed you, guilted you, yelled at you or literally attached you at some point in your life because they feared the real power you had. It's not just men who do this, other women, even some mothers do this to their daughters because they're afraid of having their light eclipsed by yours.  

Yesterday I watched three different women open this part of them that they'd shut down for, well... decades. I saw the transformation occur right in front of my eyes.

Their Heartspace opened, they owned their gift, they felt safe for the first time being the full expression of who their heart was designed to be and WOW!!!  I can say I'm never fully prepared for how IRRESISTIBLE feminine energy feels when a woman drops into Heartspace and embraced who she is!

I believe there was a time you were connected to this, a time where you never gave this a second thought and the power of your feminine energy just flowed through you.

Your wound came and triggered you to shut this part of you down when someone's fear of that power came back at you in the form of an attack and shame.

Maybe you were a child and the bigness of your gift, your curiosity and love of life triggered their own wounds and they yelled at you for having your light switched on and distracting from what you or others were 'supposed' to be focusing on (probably something boring, or even ugly like hell or how life is about suffering, not joy).

Maybe it was a reaction to you in puberty of the attention becoming too intense or someone shaming you because of THEIR reaction to your power, something you weren't 'doing' TO them, but a reaction they felt because they felt so powerless in response to the feelings you created in them.

Maybe it was a man who showed you unconditional love in the beginning, who craved you until he had your heart and then slowly he began to change and everything he did began to crush your heart and turn that light out. He was afraid you'd realize he didn't deserve you (he was right).

Your heart has already found its way back to one truth - that you deserve a safe space, a whole experience with masculine presence and a man who isn't afraid of the power of feminine energy.

The catalyst for dropping into Heartspace is an experience with safe masculine energy. I'm going to keep posting the stories women are sending me about what's happening as this light inside them switches on so you can see how universal the reaction to an open heart and unfiltered feminine energy is.

It has NOTHING to do with age, and whatever judgments you have about your appearance and figure evaporate once you connect to your heart and witness where 'SEXY' really comes from.

I wish you could have been there yesterday and felt what happened when those ladies flipped that switch and let that light come back on. I've watched this happen and the transformation is still so unbelievable that I can't believe the difference when a woman allows her essence to be switched back on.

Maybe you've had a taste of this with a dance class, acting class or seen glimpses of what's possible in a movie or novel that gave your heart pangs of what once was and what could be again. What would it be like to live with the power of your Heartspace open again?

I can tell you one thing for certain - that energy inside you is the irresistible quality a conscious man is looking for, one he refuses to live without and one that if it's not open in you that he can't feel so he's passing you by.

That quality is as rare as the conscious man you feel is 'impossible' to find. He's there, but if your Heartspace isn't open, if you meet him he'll miss you and if you're online he'll skip past you. If you do somehow connect because he senses this potential but your triggers shut you down he's going to be a man with options, and he's going to move on because he's committed to a relationship with a woman who is as safe as him.

That's fair, isn't it?  That your heart is as safe as his and you're not going to shut it down or be triggered and overreact giving him a full blast of uncontrolled emotion that's been stuck behind a wall?  You're asking for that from a conscious man, someone whose heart and energy will always be open and safe for you, so that's reasonable for him to look for too.

He can't find you if it's shut down, probably will walk by even if it's dialed down or set on temporary mute.  You definitely don't want to get into a relationship only to discover a sensitivity that triggers your heart to go full blast and leave you trying to explain why some parts of your heart aren't safe.

It's nearly impossible to walk back an explosion of energy like that because trust is the currency of conscious relationships and full blast from a woman feels the same to a man as it would feel to you to see him unexpectedly explode with road rage or yell and punch a wall and not understand why you didn't feel safe because HIS full blast wasn't directed at you.

Conscious relationships are built by two people with open hearts observing each other every day and seeing every day that the person they're trusting is not only keeping their heart open, but that they can handle the responsibility and power of a heart that's tapped into.

So if you're ready to tap into that Heartspace, or you want to learn how to manage it in a way that won't push a conscious man away, now is the time for you to reach out and set up a Heartspace call with me and allow me to give you the gift of owning what's been inside you all along.

For more information on our books and courses that cover this in more detail, or to book a one on one “Heartspace” session, send a message through the “Contact” page.

In support,
Graham R White