Mind Blowing Sex

Can I tell you a secret?  On any given weekend I have more orgasms than I used to have in an entire year. And it's not really the number that I notice as much as how long they last, how they just keep coming one after the other and time after time get more and more outrageously indescribable.

I used to be one of those women who almost never had an orgasm during sex and NEVER from penetration alone.  I used to believe it wasn't possible to climax without some kind of additional stimulation.  That meant instead of being free to just enjoy the ride there either had to be a focus on how to create that extra stimulation or the big finish wouldn't happen.  

All that changed after I left my marriage and began to do MY work. I began to explore my triggers, my wounding and my old limiting beliefs around sex and all other areas of my life. I gave myself permission to explore my body, my beliefs around sexuality and I created a healing space for my sexual wounds. I became intimately familiar and comfortable with my body, how it looked, how it felt and what it enjoyed. I danced naked (with the lights on) in front of the mirror and began to honour and appreciate my body. I took care of my body as if I was IN a intimate relationship. I still shaved, groomed and wore sexy as hell lingerie even though I was the only one for four long years who saw it:)

Four years into my 'single self exploration' I began a relationship with a conscious man.

A conscious relationship creates the space for a woman to open herself up sexually in ways she's never dreamed possible because she's free to let go of all her thoughts and relax into an experience of being wholly accepted and understood.

It's not just the way he physically stimulates you, it's the way he mentally, emotionally and energetically stimulates you - and how all this exists just as much in every moment outside of the sexual experience as it does during it.

Showing up consciously in ALL areas of his life; this is what makes a conscious man so attractive, so sexy and so unbelievably desirable.

Every time a conscious man does what he says he's going to do, every time he manages a stressful situation with ease and confidence, every time he holds you without you having to ask, every time you see him living his truth the trust grows, the attraction grows, the sexual experience is more dynamic and the intimacy grows deeper.

I ache for him without end. I'm aroused when I'm in his presence, when I think about him, when I smell him, when I touch him. His energy is magnetic, it draws me to him.

His consistency and ability to remain calm and confident during the most incredible stress life has to throw at us makes me want to be consumed by him over and over and over again. He is safe, I can trust him not only with my body but with my heart and my soul.

The more he reveals, the more I want to give him, open up and please him. The desire I feel is unexplainable.

I've felt my orgasms in parts of the body I didn't know could experience that level of endorphin rush.  I've had orgasms in ways I had no idea were possible to climax from. I've orgasmed just from touching him, I've even had orgasms with no touch at all, just his energy wrapping around every part of me.

I've been able to let my inhibitions go and allow my body to really feel the sensations. I've been able to scream, rip the sheets, cry, go outside of my body and let him take complete control.

His touch is like electricity through my body. The pleasure he give rips my body, mind and spirit open.  

Every time is better than the time before - that's not a literary expression.  Every single time it gets better and better, my mind is blown and when I think I've reached my edge he takes me further, he takes me past what I think is possible.

I've experienced all of this without attending a sex toy party, sitting naked in a goddess circle exploring my sacred yoni in the mirror or going in search of the secrets to tantric sexuality. I personally wonder if women 'taking control of our orgasms' misses the point because for me, the more I give myself in trust to my man the more I experience unimaginable pleasure.

There's no real point in self-pleasure when the best it gets you is a 2/10 compared to what a conscious lover creates. There's no benefit to adding battery assisted stimulus when it's everything you can do to hold back as one orgasm after the next rips through your body. Ripped sheets and cracked headboards are investment enough.

So instead of controlling my orgasms, I've chosen to control my choices in life; who I choose who be, how I choose to engage and react to challenges, who I choose to connect with and who I choose to refuse. And by choosing a man I can trust in every aspect and facet of life he gives me the gift of being able to completely let go in bed.

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Much love,
Jenn