Signs you're emotionally tethered to a past relationship:

How They Got You Hooked...

Almost every woman I've worked with who is a narcissist magnet is an empathic, highly sensitive individual who was imperfectly loved as a child. The unique kind of safety, assurance and acknowledgement of her special way of perceiving the world was either not appreciated or many times even attacked and berated.

Many women learned that love was conditional on them being a certain way that fit their parent and cut off their own feelings in the process.

Most had parents who didn't 'get' them, didn't have space for a big personality and emotions or religion or some other oppressive force left them terrified that unless they were perfect they would never be loved.

In the beginning the narcissist loves HARD! They give so much that it can feel intoxicating. For a few weeks, sometimes a few months, they make you feel like you are the very center of the universe! YES! This is what we've always wanted - to be completely accepted just as we are!

They pour in love and we pour it back in return. Then slowly, imperceptibly, that unconditional love begins to change. They have explanations and excuses for why it's happening, but against our intuition, we believe them... Their once unconditional love is gradually replaced with a sense of having to walk on eggshells. And then we ache SO HARD for the love we once felt and then they have us - we'll do ANYTHING to have that addictive feeling we experienced when we first met.

In the beginning they feel like the perfect match for our soul, but once they 'have us' anyone who knows the real way they treat us is asking why we're still there. We have all kinds of justifications that somehow make sense from the inside, but if we applied to any other relationship would sound hollow and completely one sided.

The entwining grows as they do everything they can to meld their lives with ours. Their identity and needs become the only thing that matters in the relationship and they make us feel selfish and needy for the things we say we want that distract even slightly from their own.

There comes a point where your identity is completely lost and the idea of leaving feels impossible. And even if you manage to break free, they find ways to keep you emotionally tethered, even if it means using your children.

The emotional prison that a narcissist creates grows into a living hell that leaves you feeling depressed, crazy and for many even suicidal. It's not just your happiness that's on the line, it's your life and the ability to break the cycle for your children.

The tragedy for many women who manage to leave a narcissist is that their wounded heart is like a homing beacon to other narcissists, who show up at a time when you are your most vulnerable and once again make you feel like someone miraculously is willing to take on what no one else would be able to handle.

So many women I've worked with have left a marriage with a narcissist, only to realize that the man that they felt was different from all the rest is using them for their money, their body or their pure unfiltered love and feminine energy.

You're likely beginning to understand how powerful, toxic and long-lasting the pull of a narcissist is. The key to breaking free and taking back your power is to be surrounded by people who won't stop speaking the truth about how deserving and lovable you are until you own your power again!

It's once you have support of people you trust around you that you'll find the courage to know you're deserving of love again.

You'll learn the tools and developed the necessary boundaries to prevent you from falling for another narcissist.

You deserve a healthy relationship, love and to feel passion from a deserving man.

Once and for all, let's get you unstuck, you've come this far, now it's time to break free!

Once you purchase the course below, you will get an email with instructions on how to connect with Jennifer so she can put you in the private Facebook Group. Each Wednesday beginning on June 7, there will be a Live Facebook Video on a new topic combined with a worksheet posted in the same group that you will receive instructions on how to answer.

The video will be recorded and posted for anyone who would like to review it and for those who are unable to attend during the live recording. Between the times each week that the video is posted you will be encouraged to post your answers and participate in the discussion with the other members.

It's once you have support of people you trust around you that you'll find the courage to know you're deserving of love again.

You'll learn the tools and developed the necessary boundaries to prevent you from falling for another narcissist.

You deserve a healthy relationship, love and to feel passion from a deserving man.

Once and for all, let's get you unstuck, you've come this far, now it's time to break free!