Foreplay to a woman is NOT groping, pleading, a little petting, 30 seconds of oral and a few minutes of heavy breathing before switching positions to prove you're throwing in some variety.
Nor is it a formula of helping with the dishes in exchange for sex 15 minutes later.
Foreplay for a woman is about the 'being' of a man and begins the moment the previous act of sex ends.
It's curling around her and holding her rather than rolling over and going to sleep.
It's getting her a glass of water, a towel, bowl of fruit or cup of tea.
It's the habit of making her coffee in the morning, joining her in the shower or letting her sleep in while you make the kids breakfasts and pack the lunches.
It's the kiss at the door that lingers and the grab he always sneaks in that says he finds her irresistible and can't wait to get back.
It's the text he sends from work to say he was reminded of her when he passed the little Vietnamese place she loves so much.
It's the house cleaner he surprises her with the day before her parents come to visit.
It's the way he stops to help someone stranded at the side of the road.
It's the way he drops a project and spends time with his son or takes his daughter shopping for a new pair of shoes.
It's the way he notices the moment his woman walks through the door, or across the room and how he appreciates her small gestures of love.
It's in the way he listens, how he respects her intuition and embraces her emotions, especially the days she can't explain why she's so upset.
It's the way he makes her feel safe and holds her rather than stepping away when he doesn't know what to do.
It's the way he looks at her and says, "I don't know what you're feeling right now, but I'm here until I know you've got what you need."
I’ve taken the time to work out how much time on average this takes per day. If you average it over a month, it’s less than 15 minutes a day. Sometimes it’s a couple hours for the day, but most days it just takes a few minutes.
You don’t have to spend hours every day, but if you haven’t invested a couple hours into your woman a few days this month, all those other little things won’t mean much. And… if you made a big production one day, but ignored or forgot the little things on the other days, the big production won’t count for much either.
BENEFITS FOR MEN WHO DO THIS:
The odds are biased in a man’s favor to find a woman who's been waiting to experience this her whole life and will lavish you with every personal and sexual response when she encounters you.
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Graham R White