Great Sex! It's Not Just For New Lovers

sex Apr 19, 2019

Someone asked me the other day, "With conscious couples, does the spark fade after a period of time? Does every relationship eventually lose its passion?"  

Here's my experience in a conscious relationship:

My love, connection and desire for Graham has not faded, decreased or slowed down. I want and desire him a little more everyday. I still check him out, get butterflies when I see him after we've been apart, and I want him every time he flashes me a smile and I get a glimpse of his dimples.

Early on in our relationship a friend of mine stated, "Oh! You're in that *Honeymoon* phase, where you still need to lock the door so the kids don't walk in."

I remember having this intuitive sense that she was so SO wrong about what we were creating, that what we had was no oxytocin delusion - that it would just go on and on.

Well, you know what?  We still need to lock the door, some days more than once in a day, and I still love and cherish every moment of our intimate connection. I know there is and will continue to be more for us to learn and explore in this space together.

What's the secret behind our consistent connection and attraction for each other? Why am I MORE attracted to this man with each passing day? Why do I still feel every time is better than the last time?

***WE BOTH DO THE WORK***

The more I do *my* inner work, the more attractive I become energetically, physically, emotionally and spiritually. I have a strong, healthy relationship with my body therefore I eat better and exercise more consistently. I carry myself with grace, ease and confidence because I feel comfortable in my skin. I'm comfortable naked with the lights on, I'm comfortable exploring my sexuality, I'm comfortable pushing my sexual boundaries in the safe space Graham and I have created and this creates excitement and a newness every time we connect.  

I have become MORE sensitive, more emotional, more intuitive, more empathic but the work allows me to use these gifts in the most magical way. They are a positive not a negative.

In short, the more I do my work the more conscious I become.  The more conscious I become the more attractive I become on every level.

The more Graham does his work and performs magnificently under pressure, the more attractive he becomes. Nothing turns me on more than loyalty, consistency and commitment to purpose. I can say with complete honesty that in the 3plus years we've been together I haven't felt I'm 'not in the mood'.

We are two big personality, easily triggered individuals, yet we've never gone to bed angry. Not once. We've been steamed at each other plenty, but never once have we gone to bed upset. Can you understand the trust and connection that builds, to know how to resolve any difference, no matter how big?

If you would like support building that kind of a relationship, send me a private message.  Graham and I offer a couples mentoring package - in case your partner is interested in knowing what would make you a more passionate playmate.

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Wait for the man who can touch you without using his hands, a man who can speak to you without saying a word, a man who can open you up and take you to places you never knew existed simply by being his authentic, conscious, magnificent self.

For more information on our books and courses that cover this in more detail, or to book a one on one session, send a message through the “Contact” page.

Love Jennifer

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