Being single or partnered make little difference on Valentine's Day. Ok, that's not entirely true, because more breakups occur Valentine's Day than any other due to all of the expectations we have loaded on this arbitrary celebration. If being single today has you down, I'd like to share how being alone taught me what love really is. 

As a man, I'm likely not as affected by how I feel about...

How many times have you heard that you're too sensitive? How many times have your feelings been dismissed because you were told you're too emotional or dramatic? 

How many times have you been mocked, yelled at, scolded, or been pushed away for what you were feeling? For me, it was most of my life. 

Most people haven't been able to 'handle' me, they didn't know what to do with that part...

Anything a man has said to you that doesn't reflect that statement is a lie designed to disempower you. I can't get over the number of women I've talked to who dislike something about themselves based on a comment a man has made. Don't believe it. 

I've heard some pretty awful things that men have said to women who have trusted them with their bodies and Jenn is receiving messages because...

Most women are looking for a man who doesn’t exist. 

Most men are looking for something they don’t BELIEVE exists. 

What men want is freedom - actually, an even better word for what men want is “space”. 

Most women believe that their are two kinds of men: The common kind of man who never wants to have to make a choice or be committed, and the rare...

When it comes to men, how often have you tried to be supportive, given advice, been long-suffering to find the debt is never repaid?

Men do not change because they have new or better information, nor are they fundamentally influenced by philosophical arguments or well articulated opinion. Sharing posts, engaging in long conversations, going with them to courses or counseling are not the...

Even conscious men can be dense and insensitive; we're all wired to drive for the win. What's different about a conscious man is how he defines his win. 

If he's conscious, your win is his win and the one that matters most. If he argues with you about who's right, he's not listening and he's not conscious. 

Your feelings are always valid. In fact, your feelings are more valid than his...

I’m not saying all women are “too much,” but mine definitely is.

It’s 2:00 AM and I’m wide awake because I can barely even get myself to sleep next to this woman - some nights just being in the room with her feels like an overload!

I think my heart just doesn’t want to take an 8 hour break, so it keeps me wide awake thinking about who she chooses to be and...

Foreplay to a woman is NOT groping, pleading, a little petting, 30 seconds of oral and a few minutes of heavy breathing before switching positions to prove you're throwing in some variety.

Nor is it a formula of helping with the dishes in exchange for sex 15 minutes later.

Foreplay for a woman is about the 'being' of a man and begins the moment the previous act of sex ends.

It's curling...

Women were originally the most treasured and respected members of Matriarchal societies where their ability to create life and intuit the rhythms of nature were of the highest value.

Women are empathically and sensually more powerful whereas men are pragmatically and physically more powerful. Combined the strengths of each create tremendous synergy and allowed us to take control of our...

There is a trade that goes on in many relationships where men do romantic favors for their partner in exchange for her doing sexual favors for him - at least that's how they refer to those acts. But is it actually romance and sex, or is it really just a performance designed for two codependent individuals who have learned to exchange favors?

Doesn't a woman really want a man to show up with...